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Playing Well With Others! – by Mollena & Lee Harrington

Two kinkster dynamites have written a book to guide anyone who’s interested in joining the kink community, regardless of what level of involvement is being sought. Their book description is underneath the video!

Whether you’re a trembling novice or a jaded expert, there’s always something new to be discovered in the endlessly changing, complex and titillating world of kink.

While there are plenty of other books out there that explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book that explains kink culture — the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community.

You’ll learn to:

Examine your own motivations, needs, wants and desires
Ease your way into established communities
Understand etiquette in different adventurous sex communities
Familiarize yourself with the many types of events available to you
Care for your relationships as you explore new territory
Negotiate for play and aftercare
Go back to the “world at large” without ruffling feathers

…and, of course, answer the all-important question: What do you wear?!

The team of Harrington and Williams offers 30-plus years of experience in diverse kink communities: top, bottom and switch; gay, bi and straight; female, male and trans; white and POC. Both former titleholders and international educators, they are an unbeatable pair of “sexual sherpas” with an inimitable voice and a great deal of wisdom.

Playing Well With Others is an unprecedented and essential guidebook for anyone who wants to explore or understand the “community” aspect of the kink lifestyle.

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Sex Related Podcasts

There are a number of great sexuality related podcasts out there, here are a few of my favorites

Graydancer has been running the Ropecast for many years and doesn’t *just* talk about rope :)

Cunning Minx runs the fantastic Polyamory Weekly “Responsible non-monogamy from a kink-friendly, pansexual point of view”

The Masocast offers “casual conversations with intelligent, funny and all around interesting kinky people

Raven Lightholme runs Freedom of Fetish that shares “sex, relationship, and fetish advice”

The Big Little Podcast which is “an audio program by, about, and for age players of all kinds”

The Erotic Awakening podcast is hosted by Dan & Dawn Williams, Barak & Brat Sheba and Lee Harrington