Jun 222017
The Not-So-Secret BDSM History Of Wonder Woman

by April Baer Follow OPB | May 26, 2017 6:45 p.m. Download Comic book stores are pulling out the stops for next weekend, offering any number of events and special issues to coincide with the premier of the new Wonder Woman feature film. The things we do for this job. April and Coral get tied up […]

Jun 112014
Speak Out Against Twitter's Censorship of Sexual Health Info

To all sex educators and sexual health activists! A petition is launched on Change.org to reverse Twitter’s ban on sexual health ads and education messaging– and this movement needs the support from sex positives like yourselves! SIGN THE PETITION HERE The petition calls for Twitter to remove health items like condoms and other sexual health […]

Sep 032013
The pain that is vulvodynia

Vulvodynia is pain of the vulvar area which is currently described by the  International Society for the Study of Vulvovaginal Disease as “discomfort, most often described as burning pain, occurring in the absence of relevant visible findings or a specific, clinically identifiable, neurologic disorder”.  Meaning, in layman’s terms:  there doesn’t seem to be a specific reason […]

Aug 102013
Genderfree Female – No, I'm not the girl in our relationship.

People without gender are largely an overlooked group even within the transgender community. And anyone who is not cisgender tends to run into expectations to be so… and then on top of that, cisgender and transgender people tend to be expected to fall into stereotyped gender/sex roles. So what to do when you’re a genderfree […]

Jun 242013
The DSM-5 Says Kink is OK!

The American Psychiatric Association has depathologized kinky sex – including cross-dressing, fetishes, and BDSM – in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-5). Now the paraphilias are considered to be “unusual sexual interests,” while those who have sex with children or people who haven’t consented, or who deliberately cause harm to […]

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Jun 242013
Sex Blogger Tips

My guide to sex toy reviewing and blogging by heyepiphora 15 rules for writing a sex toy review that doesn’t royally suck by heyephiphora Dangerous Lilly’s Sex Blogger Education posts That Toy Chick’s How to be a Bitchin’ Blogger Kara Sutra’s Building Your Blog, Becoming an Online Affiliate, and Writing a Review Mistress Kay’s Sex […]

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Jun 182013
Quick Way to  Recognize a Lame Dom

Quick Way to Recognize a Lame Dom Shady people are shady from beginning to end The best and most accurate way to know the character of a man, a Dom, a Daddy or a Master is by looking at his “house”, his family, his chargers, his subs, his women, his baby-girls or his wife. By […]

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May 272013
Speak Up! Guide to Strategic Media

Created by the “Red Umbrella Project” the Speak Up! Guide to Strategic Media Tools and Tactics to Amplify the Voices of People in the Sex Trades  is a really helpful, concise presentation of how to interact with the media to make sure the message your sending is the message you’re intending. Sign up for their […]

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May 062013

Hand-cuffs.   Hand-cuffs are a beginners toy in restraint. It is an easy accessible toy, they even sell them at the mall at Spencer. You can grab some fluffy ones or get more real with hardware. Yet hand-cuffs are quite dangerous when taken for granted. Now if you use and or prefer the novelty kind, or the […]

May 012013
Leash Lead Dominance [LLD]*

  Being lead by a leash is not just for dogs or even puppy-play. It is an authoritative, restrictive and affirmation action used to show complete surrender, submission and immediately endorses a strict Dominance and authority by a Dominant or Top.   First let’s define Leash Lead Dominance [LLD]:   leash lead dominance is two-fold […]